In other words, dating has not helped them to grow, find a mate, or become a more spiritual person. Many people become disillusioned in the process, and they feel like they do not know how to make it work.
Many Christians were saying that dating was sinful in and of itself; others were at least feeling as if people who were still dating were less spiritual than those who didn't.And the question came out the same as the first time."What do you mean, 'the biblical position'? "Well, do you think that dating is a biblical thing to do? Once I heard her question, I thought she was kidding, but I soon realized she was not.I had heard people ask about the biblical position on capital punishment or euthanasia, but never on dating.What is the fruit of your dating for you and for the people that you date? It is mainly about your character growth and how you treat people." "So, you think it is okay to date? "Of course, I do, but it is only okay to date within biblical guidelines, which by the way are not burdensome.They will save your life and help you to make sure you end up with a good person to marry," I said, chuckling on the inside about how often Christians want a rule.