“Any girl who just fell and can't find her phone and is simultaneously throwing up everywhere… No one wants to date a scene-maker.” Kiko from the University of Massachusetts Amherst says being “that girl” won’t get you past the hook-up stage.“Girls that try to come off as that ‘party girl’ completely scream ‘I don’t want to be in a relationship, I just want to f*ck dudes every weekend,” he says.“Guys like girls that can drink and have fun—definitely a turn-on.
Being confident, yet down-to-earth, is a gf-worthy combination. You talk more smack than Gossip Girl If you’re always gossiping and talking behind people’s backs, especially about your own friends, the guys you’re around may consider you catty, shallow, and disloyal—none of which are traits of an ideal girlfriend.“Many guys don’t want date a girl who is a prude, but also don’t want a girl that your boys have heard SEVERAL stories about,” Mike says. Once all that spreads, she’s not dateable in the eyes of most.” If you had a wild run of hook-ups and earned yourself a reputation, but are now ready for a relationship, then tone it down and lay low for a bit.“If you ask your friends about a girl and they can give you graphic stories on graphic stories about things she’s done... Hang out with the guys instead of hooking up with them, and you can reinvent yourself à la Jay Gatsby.“Guys do like a bit of a challenge, so not having sex may lead to more hook-ups until it does happen. Some guys just want to hook up and are not interested in relationships, so many times it has nothing to do with the girl.It's completely dependent on the situation and people involved.” 6.